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Instead of self-harming why not try some of these...


Trying screaming,

    Try crying,   

  Try having a cold shower.   

  Try creating a mental 'safe place'.   

  Try biting on something like a lemon’ Try exercising, going for a walk/ run.


    Try hitting a pillow/punch bag,    

Try listening to loud music…etc rock,  

   Try dropping ice into a bath to give a little pain to skin,    

Try taking a cold/hot shower.   

  Try talking to someone.

    Try rubbing body lotion on the areas you want to harm.    



    Try keeping a diary of your feelings   

  Call a friend/family members,   

  Try taking deep breaths, in and out

    Search internet or library for interesting things,

    Play a game,  


   Watch favourite films or programme,  

   Try drawing/painting,    

Try drawing out your dream home


Try crunching digestive biscuits up in hand,    

Try making a list of things (e.g. things you would like for x-mas)  


   Do crosswords in magazines,   

  Do a reward chart (mark off every day with a smile if you don’t self harm or sad one if you self harm)  

   Get clay and mould something, than squash it back to a ball,


Try putting a rubber band around a wrist then when you want to cut just pull it back and release, this will sting the wrist, taking your mind off self harming 









I would like to take this time to let you know that I am not a professional nor do I try to act like one,
I am simply running this website to help others get though what ever they are facing whether its current or in the past.


I am simply running this website as I have been though many different institutions in my life
time and thought that I would like to help others that may need help.



The facts and statistics that are on my website are those that I have researched and written in my own writing.
I have spend and still do spend time looking and reading all different books, research or website to help others
who are reading this website. I can give you the source of my research if need be as well just,
email me on 'contact us'.


Please bare with me while I am trying to update the website with
new pages and revising statistics.



The true life pages are of those who have contacted the page, with they own memory of what
they have been though, some have changed their names,
places etc. for their own protection.



Amy x